Disciplining Your Child- Some Vital Information!

Disciplining your child or children, can be a nightmare for many people. Perhaps you are a relatively new parent and your struggles are just beginning. If this is the case, you are definitely doing the right thing by being proactive and learning all you can. On the other hand, if you have been a parent for a while now, you have a different circumstance because many of the patterns of your child disciplining are already well established. Even though it may be difficult to transition to some other ways of parenting, it can still be done! With determination, and unconditional love, anything is possible!

Is disciplining your child something you really struggle with? Are you finding that how you are disciplining him/her isn't working, or are you wondering whether to do it at all? These are some very good questions you should be asking yourself. We'll give you a few things to think about to help you with your decisions.

First of all, to address the first part, you very well may have found this article because the methods of child disciplining that you use just aren't working for you anymore. This is not surprising for a couple of reasons.

1. There are so many parents who are in your same shoes. Whether it is this complex society and how fast kids grow up today, or if it's you not doing something on your end, or a combination of both, this is a near epidemic in our society.
2. It is more and more accepted that disciplining your child is not an effective way of handling them.

Now, you may be ready to click off this article right now because you may think this is a ridiculous statement. We ask that you be open minded and hear an explanation. If you recall, in the first paragraph we asked are you wondering whether or not you were considering to discipline your children, or not.

Well, here's some reasons why you should consider the latter.

1. Children have proven to respond better to love and understanding, rather than harsh commands or a system of giving and taking away privileges depending on their behavior.
2. It has been proven that there are biological and chemical things that go on in a child's brain that makes them act certain ways. This isn't an abnormal condition, it's just that their brains are growing, and there's so much stimulus going on for them.
3. When you use discipline, you will be seen as the police. When that happens, they may behave for you, but they are also very likely to misbehave when you are not present. This leads to dishonesty and deceit, which are not good qualities to foster in your children.
4. These negative qualities can lead to confusion, especially in younger children. They may feel conflicted that they feel bad feelings about all of this, yet they may enjoy the excitement of getting away with something.

There is a lot said in the previous paragraph, but for the purposes of this short article, we didn't want to go into too much detail. If you think this all is something you would be interested in learning more about,

please visit, disciplining your child, is it absolutely necessary.

We realize that not everyone is going to agree that this would work for them. And in some cases, the transition to this style of parenting might take a while. However, we urge you to be open minded and at least check us out. There is a lot of great free information you can get just by checking us out, and if you really want to learn more, we know you would enjoy this if you gave it a chance. It is really amazing the first time you see your children respond positively, just because they were given unlimited amounts of unconditional love. Do you think it's possible for your children to want to behave? Well, it actually is! Why don't you check it out? What have you got to lose?

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